Okay I have noticed feelings in minor chords and thus scales change with dynamics and tempo.
A minor, E minor, B minor all have a peaceful feeling at average tempo and joyful feeling at fast tempo.
F# minor is where the sadness with slow starts.
C# minor, Ab minor, are both sad when slow and happy when fast
Eb minor on the contrary is very peaceful.
Bb minor behaves just like C# minor and Ab minor.
F minor by itself, in other words no other minors besides the cadence sounds very sad to me no matter what speed or how loud.
C minor is like the most versatile of all these. It sounds angry when loud, peaceful when in high octaves, sad when slow, and happy when fast
G minor has the same versatality
D minor has more of a peaceful sound rather than sad in lower octaves.
Is there any way you can make F minor happy without playing some other minor chords at a fast speed?