Music and time, “natural” time

Question

To play music rhythm in time it was always something difficult to me, with a metronome also. Basically I can not count time. On the other hand I have some intuition to compose simple music, and when I do it I don`t care for time and just concentrate myself in "how it sounds", if it sounds good, like I want, I memorize, and I am not thinking if it is a "triplet" or not. Notation is artificial. I would like to understand both systems, but it seems just to function my natural way. What should I do?

1. Abandon Music;
2. Forget notation and play by ear (develop ear skills);
3. Compose and improvise and forget interpretation of the others work.

Answer 1

Do whatever you want!

I know a man who, when handed a guitar, will perform Rod Stewart's I Don't Wanna Talk About It. He sings beautifully. He gets a nice tone out of his guitar. His bars last as long as he pleases - 4 beats, 5 beats, 7 beats, 6 beats.

Now, I find it quite uncomfortable to listen to - I want to sing along, quietly - but he comes in a beat early, or a beat late, every time. But it doesn't bother everyone, and many people very much enjoy his performances.

Play what you think sounds good. That might be enough for you. Other people may or may not like it; you need to decide whether you care what they think.

However, as Wheat says in his comment, keeping to a rhythm is almost essential when playing in a group with other musicians. If you played piano and I played bass, and I wasn't able to predict when your next note would come, or when you would change chord, we wouldn't manage to make any music worth hearing.

Music that deviates from a strict time signature is challenging for band musicians - for example I sometimes play with a set up beginner-intermediate guitarists, and certain Crowded House songs slip a 3/4 bar into a 4/4 song - it takes a few practice runs to get it right.

Answer 2

Music notation is more or less a unified way to describe and record music so that it can be repeated by other musicians. More broadly theory is just a way to understand why music "works". It's a set of "rules" that explain why one thing sounds good and another doesn't.

You don't need to know any of that to write or perform music, so certainly don't let it limit you creatively. But on the other hand music theory in particular can be be a very helpful tool in composition.

If an important part of your goal is documenting your music, then yes, you probably want to put some time into learning notation and theory. But don't stress about it for now.

All things can come in time with patients and practice.