When we play chords with that many notes we have no choice but to drop a few. This occurs in music theory too. It is a common practice to drop the 5th from a dominant 7th chord, and double the root, for example C7 played as {C, E, Bb, C}. This is often played on guitar in the first position as (x, 3, 2, 3, 1, x). I'm assuming my notation is self explanatory and x means don't play that string. Again, I stress that this voicing is recommended in classical music harmony texts and not to accommodate any specific instrument.
The movement {C, E, Bb} --> {C, F, A} sounds very nice and the 5th of C7, G, doesn't really move gracefully to a note in the F chord (though one can move it to F or A or even leave it resolving C7 --> Fadd9). But I digress.
As for the 13th I'm going to describe it in terms of the dominant 13th rather than the Maj13 as you have stated, but the comments do apply in general.
Since we don't have enough strings or fingers to play the whole 13th chord a common practice for playing 11th and 13th chords is to simply add the 11th or the 13th to a dominant 7th chord, ignoring the 9th and 11th (in the case of the 13th). A common voicing of the 13th on guitar is
F13 = (1, 3, 1, 2, 3, 1) = (root, 5th, b7th, 3rd, 13th (or 6th), root).
Another common voicing that follows the form of "fat chords" with a large interval in the bass is
F13 = (1, x, 1, 2, 3, x) = (root, x, b7th, 3rd, 13th, x).
And it is sometimes common to include the 9th as in
C13 = (x, 3, 2, 3, 3, 5) = (x, root, 3rd, b7th, 9th, 13th)
When I first learned these my guitar teacher said just grab the notes you can. This gets the chord forms in your muscle memory. After learning more about music theory and harmony I would say that the choice of form should be such that movement into and out of the 13th is graceful, that is you hear close movement of the notes, resolution, etc.
In closing the thing that makes the 13th a 13th is the dominant 7th foundation with the 6th added. I'd extend this to the Maj13, i.e. Maj7th with the 6th added. You want to hear that 7th degree or it's just a 6th chord or an add6 rather than a true 13th. The fingerings I've provided can be extended to Maj13 by raising the b7. You can free up fingers by dropping the 5th (which can be done on extended Maj chords as with Dom 7ths). The key to choosing a voicing is in how it moves to the other chords.